Remembering

Yesterday I lit this candle for Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day.

I chose it because it has three wicks...three glowing flames.

One for William...
One for Ethan...
One for all of the babies that can only be held in their parents hearts, not their arms.

As I lit each one I thought "You are loved!"

As I blew them all out I made a wish that yesterday not a single baby was gone too soon. Just for one day, but I am sure (sadly) that more joined the sad club of parents who know our awful truth that babies die. I wish it wasn't so.