My friend's baby girls were born today...my heart is breaking for her.
It absolutely sucks that in two weeks time two more mommas have had to say goodbye to their babies far too soon. Four little girls who were loved and wanted...gone.
I am angry. I am sad. I just wish it wasn't true.
Two pieces of my heart that are gone forever and a new piece that brought back joy.
I'm so sorry to hear! My heart goes out to the Mothers of those angels!
ReplyDeleteDang it. I wish there were some way to stop this pain, to prevent other mamas from knowing the heartbreak that we know all too well. I hate this, too.
ReplyDelete(You might send her to the CLIMB (Center for Loss in Multiple Birth) website when she's ready. That organization really helped me understand my wacky, complicated grief after I lost my twins, and their Facebook page, full of veterans (25+ years, some, in loving and missing one, more or all of their multiples) have been so helpful...as has their e-mail support group for those of us who lost the entire pregnancy.) http://www.climb-support.org. Hugs...
ReplyDeleteOh, Jessica. I commented on your last blog before I saw this and the futility of everything just breaks my heart all over again. I am so sorry for your friend. She's lucky to have you as a symbol of survival and hope, but there's nothing that can soften the pain of those early days. And in December. I hate it so much.
ReplyDeleteThis just kills me. Why can't the world stop hurting deserving couples? I am devastated that another woman had to feel this kind of horrible loss.
ReplyDeleteI will be thinking of her.
MissC
I am sick over this... so very very sad....
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